Licensed and Ready!

We got some great news yesterday: We are officially a licensed foster home!  The state says that they trust us to be parents!  :)  So, no worries, Baby J is in good hands.  This means that we can be placed with children at any time.  We are still waiting on our adoption certification.  I am told that it has all been approved except for our fingerprints (because our fingerprint clearance from DPS just won't do).  But, we do not need to have the adoption certification before kids move in, we just need it before we actually adopt (which will be months after children are placed).

Exciting new things are happening every day.  We have already been contacted more than once about children looking for a home.  We are still unsure about where these roads will lead.  As soon as we have more information, I will update everyone!

For now, we are very excited to have next week off work for a stay-cation.  J is growing by leaps and bounds.  He grows physically everyday, and he is just a smart cookie.  On Tuesday, he crossed the mark to 20 months old.  He surprised me that day by counting to 10!!!!!  He also surprised me on Tuesday by spelling part of his name!  Smart boy.  He is going to be the best brother!

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